New Year’s Eve
One year, the year I was to turn 21 and was to leave home and was planning to travel New Zealand then the world, I was on a caravan holiday in the South Island with Mum and Dad, so on New Year’s eve I sat on a rock beside a river alone to contemplate all of this.
I was planning to break up with my girlfriend of two years so that I could carry out my travel plans, was feeling like a heel but knew it had to happen.
It was peaceful watching the river flowing past and I was wide awake and able to think and plan clearly. The past year had been good for me. I was about to complete my electrical apprenticeship and intended to leave Hamilton to go to Wellington in the south of the North Island . I planned to live and work there for a while and earn some money before going to the South Island to travel around taking jobs as they came up.
Well, I guess life’s not always predictable. I did leave home and go to Wellington . I had a few jobs and while enjoying one of them I met Jill, and that ended my plans to travel further.
The rest is history. We are happily married with a grown-up family and grandchildren, and now living back in Hamilton . So much for my planned world travel!
But I don’t miss it. I’m glad we married and settled down and had a family.
I no longer sit outside and contemplate on New Year’s Eve. Instead I am probably in bed sound asleep before the clock strikes that magic hour.


